“A continual dropping in a very rainy day and a contentious woman are alike.” Proverbs 27:15 KJV

You angry? Nah, you are really afraid… You’re terrified, but you hide it in the way you behave- You misbehave to avoid your truth, you project to have the other person believe it’s them and not you. You hide under the disguise that you are your own demise! Its Pride!! Not willing to humble yourself and share that you just want someone who cares for you! You just desire to have love and not fear! You desire to be of good cheer, and you fear that nobody loves you! Say the truth instead of hiding behind a false narrative! You lie to yourself everyday causing contention, strife! Being a contentious wife, instead of sharing the fears to the one who brought you here: God! Don’t hold back the truth from the one that created you and take it out on your body! Don’t become bitter and hold grudges never knowing the peace that surpasses all understanding and keeps you free. Stay away from wrath! Be ye angry, but sin not! Forgive immediately! Show mercy and no man anything but love! For love cover a multitude of sins! And it is wise for one to pass over another’s transgression. The merciful receive mercy, and we all need mercy from God! He has the power to destroy us forever or allow us to live forever, so we must cease listening to that clever devil! His words are pain and shame, and they cause us to be abused and misused by our own minds! Eating the fruit of lies is harmful to our souls, our bodies! It destroys us from the inside, having our own selves, our reflection to cause our demise, our destruction… We must obey God’s word and allow him to purge us of unrighteous works and cleanse us, Mold us and create in us a clean heart! From sin we must depart! Submit ourselves to God! Resist the devil and he will flee! Wrath blinds us and we cannot see clearly! We forget God, it is shown in our countenance; instead of just bearing our burdens to God we decide to unleash our hearts which are deceitful above all and desperately wicked… We must needs to instantly choose forgiveness and understand that we all deserve the wrath of God but instead he sent his son to die for us while we were yet in our sins! Reverencing Our husbands knowing that in all things we Fear God in Obedience. Win him over by the meek conversation, be quiet and patient… Dont be fearful in any amazement! But instead seek God and know that he hears and sees all, if your husband has committed trespass then he will fall! But we have to get our own salvation with fear and trembling, and it is Christ we want to be resembling! So, cease from wrath and choose Charity, overcome evil with good…. Submission is Obedience to God, don’t get it misconstrued. It is not weakness; in fact, it is Strength under control! Let’s go forth and be more than conquerors: Lets show Love, be very courageous- Bold! Proving to be a virtuous woman, the sheep of HIS fold.
“Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives;” 1 Peter 3:1 KJV
“While they behold your chaste conversation coupled with fear.” 1 Peter 3:2 KJV
“But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price.” 1 Peter 3:4 KJV
“For after this manner in the old time the holy women also, who trusted in God, adorned themselves, being in subjection unto their own husbands:” 1 Peter 3:5 KJV
“Even as Sara obeyed Abraham, calling him lord: whose daughters ye are, as long as ye do well, and are not afraid with any amazement.” 1 Peter 3:6 KJV
“Finally, be ye all of one mind, having compassion one of another, love as brethren, be pitiful, be courteous:” 1 Peter 3:8 KJV
“Not rendering evil for evil, or railing for railing: but contrariwise blessing; knowing that ye are thereunto called, that ye should inherit a blessing.” 1 Peter 3:9 KJV
“For he that will love life, and see good days, let him refrain his tongue from evil, and his lips that they speak no guile:” 1 Peter 3:10 KJV
“Let him eschew evil, and do good; let him seek peace, and ensue it.” 1 Peter 3:11 KJV
“For the eyes of the Lord are over the righteous, and his ears are open unto their prayers: but the face of the Lord is against them that do evil.” 1 Peter 3:12 KJV
“But and if ye suffer for righteousness’ sake, happy are ye: and be not afraid of their terror, neither be troubled;” 1 Peter 3:14 KJV
“And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.” Romans 12:2 KJV
“If it be possible, as much as lieth in you, live peaceably with all men.” Romans 12:18 KJV
“Recompense to no man evil for evil. Provide things honest in the sight of all men.” Romans 12:17 KJV
“Be not overcome of evil, but overcome evil with good.” Romans 12:21 KJV
Be Meek like Esther….
“And the king loved Esther above all the women, and she obtained grace and favour in his sight more than all the virgins; so that he set the royal crown upon her head, and made her queen instead of Vashti.” Esther 2:17 KJV
Not Contentious like Vashti…
“But the queen Vashti refused to come at the king’s commandment by his chamberlains: therefore was the king very wroth, and his anger burned in him.” Esther 1:12 KJV
